15 Tips to Help Kids Build Confidence

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Here’s a comprehensive, detailed collection of tips and guides on how to build your child’s self-confidence:

1. Give The Gift Of Unconditional Love. There’s probably nothing better than an unconditional, no-strings attached love to boost a child’s self-confidence. Show them that you love them no matter what they did or who they are, regardless of temperament, attitude, difficulties and weaknesses or strengths. When at fault, make it clear that you are upset with his or her actions and not the person.

2. Pay Attention. However busy your day might be, set some quality time and give your child your full, undivided attention. Your child will feel special and loved this way. It doesn’t have to be overblown and lengthy- just put away that mobile phone or TV remote and direct your gaze to your child. Answer a question, help them with homework or just let them read to you works wonders in increasing their self-esteem.

3. Teach Rules and Limits. Enforce house rules and your kid will understand that there are boundaries, which makes him or her feel more secure.

4. Encourage Physical Activities. Part of the parenting process is letting your child do new things, such taking up martial arts. Various achievements that can be garnered at a martial arts class can be incentive enough for your kid to try and reach his or her true potential. It can empower your child to speak up and voice their opinions, overall making them less shy.

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5. Try Something New. What’s better than taking safe, calculated risks to bring your kids out of their comfort zone? Have them ride a trike, eat new food or try a new hobby. Be there beside them for support.

6. Mistakes Are OK. In this picture-perfect world where everyone is afraid to make mistakes, people forget that mistakes build up confidence and other essential life skills. Instead of pointing out the error, make them think about what went wrong and what they can do next time.

7. Instill A Sense of Adventure. Build up self-esteem by putting your child in an environment where they can explore in relative safety. Try enrolling them in a martial arts class with other kids with or without supervision, or in a sports-themed camp.

8. Get Comfortable with Emotions. Encourage your kid to talk about his feelings. Accept how he feels and try not to judge and you’ll validate his feelings.

9. Don’t Compare. There’s nothing more deflating to your child’s self-esteem than comparison with his or her peers. Instead of pointing out the bad, do the opposite and appreciate their uniqueness and individuality.

10. Encourage Whenever You Can. All of us need the support and encouragement of our friends and family, and kids are no different. Simple words such as “Keep Going!” and “You’re Almost There!” acknowledge their efforts and make the feel valuable.

11. Set Realistic Goals. Help your child set realistic goals that they can reasonably accomplish. Give support by holding them accountable to their goal. Start it off small to minimize failure, then build up the challenges and activities as you go. In time, they’d get comfortable and be ready for bigger undertakings.

12. Celebrate Positivity. Point out the good things your child does each and everyday, either directly to him or within earshot. Encouragement is great, but telling another person is better because your child will get to bask in the glow of your praise!

13. Teach Time Management. Empower your kid to take charge of his own day-to-day schedule the right way. Set a timetable for essential events such as sleeping time and doing chores, then praise them for being responsible when they accomplish the tasks.

14. Teach Them to Help Others. The practice of helping out those less fortunate gives a unique reward in itself. Soon, your kids will see how lucky they are and realize their potential. They will also learn that giving can be just as fun as receiving.

15. Introduce Social Skills. Lastly, don’t forget to give them outside freedom such as having them join their preferred clubs and in doing sports and other outdoor activities. Don’t forget that martial arts can provide some unbeatable social benefits, i.e, have them interact with their peers and teamwork skills. Having a mentor can also be invaluable especially if your child expresses real interest in their fields of expertise.

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